No prospects? Marry yourself!

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..with this kit right here. Yup, you read it right. There is now a product out there that allows you to marry yourself, ring included, for just $45! Long gone are  the days of shelling out $20,000 for a wedding that you can’t afford in the first place. 😀

I’m sure we’re all wishing this was a legitimate product considering how self-centered our society is, but it is merely a self-improvement tactic to help remind us of our daily commitments that we have made to ourselves – a.k.a self love – something we tend to forget on our daily grind and even in our relationships. A lot of us are so focused on getting to our destination, we forget to thank our body and minds for busting their ass off to getting us there. Showing ourselves some gratitude and appreciation once in awhile or when we’re feeling stressed can make a world of a difference. Try it.

Self-love in relationships are just as important. If you’re not happy with your self, there is absolutely no way your relationships will thrive. Happiness in a relationship should not be contingent on the other person. Ever.  Relying on someone else to make you happy is a plan that will ultimately fail and make you more miserable than you were initially. Why? No one has the time and energy to be at someone’s beck and call.  Not only that, but being dependent on someone is one of the worst things you can do to yourself. People can’t always be there for you to help with your physical and emotional needs, and there’s usually a very thin line before it crosses to annoying and needy. Learn to start doing things yourself. Find things that make you happy and fulfilled. Once you’ve stopped relying on others, you’ll find that you never really needed them in the first place.

Once you’ve reached an adequate level of self-love, the first thing you’ll realize is how much more love and happiness there is in your relationships. You’ll find that you’re no longer wasting time focusing on the flaws of the relationship but spending more time pondering what you can do to make your significant other happy. Rule of thumb – if you haven’t reached that level, get there before you jump into marriage otherwise you’ll be faced with many unpleasant surprises as the world of marriage unfolds.

Which reminds me of an article I read the other day.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/seth-adam-smith/marriage-isnt-for-you_b_4209837.html

Kegel Exercises and Orgasms?

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We hear about kegel exercises all the time from our friends, doctors, and magazine articles, but most of us don’t actually give this subject matter any attention until one day we’re laughing so hard, we pee our pants; urinary incontinence is what it’s called in the medical world – the inability to control the release of urine.

This woman is doing her kegels and you don’t even know it!

What are the benefits of kegel exercises?
1) kegel exercises, also known as pelvic floor exercises, strengthen the area and muscles that control the bladder. Strengthening these muscles help with bladder control and prevention of leaks. You’re never too young to start pelvic floor exercises! These were originally meant to help with incontinence as you get older, but prevention is key.
2) doing daily kegel exercises will help maintain the placement of your vital organs, such as your bladder and uterus. Many doctors recommend doing kegel exercuses during the final stage of pregnancy, and one week post birth because childbearing and birthing naturally rearrange a womans insides, and in doing these exercises helps everything get back to normal.
3) making kegel exercises a daily habit can also help enhance your orgasms. Exercising your muscles down there maintain tone and strength, which help give more sensation during pleasure. The tighter the muscle, the more contract pressure is created. The reason orgasms are heightened when practicing daily kegel exercises is because you’re bringing extra blood flow and oxygen to an already sensitive area, heightening the overall experience. Also, in post menopausal women, doing pelvic floor exercises help maintain lubrication because of the daily increase of blood flow to that area.

How To Do Kegel Exercises?
– if you’ve never heard of kegel exercises and don’t know where your pelvic muscles are located, here is a simple explanation. When you need to take a leak, sit on the toilet and in the middle of it, use your muscles to stop the flow of urine – that is the muscle you are targeting with these exercises
– kegel exercises are easy to do and can be done any time and any where. Simply contract your pelvic muscles for a couple of seconds and let go. If you’re just starting out, try for 3 seconds first and gradually work your way up to 10. Repeat this exercises 10-15 times a day.

Men, I didn’t leave you guys out! You should also practice your daily kegel exercises if you want to vamp up your sex life. These benefit you guys just as much. If you’d like more control over semen flow, hardness of erections, and ejaculation speed, start doing your exercises today and you’ll start to see a world of difference.

Now that you know all the amazing benefits of kegel exercises, get started and let me know if you’ve noticed any changes after some time 🙂

How To Use Cock Rings

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Many people get confused on HOW to use cock rings, so this entry will be just on that. One might think, how hard could it be to just put a ring around your penis, right? WRONG. Do you put it on when it’s flaccid or erect? When there’s 3 rings, where do you put it?

First things first, what do cock rings even do?
The cock rings purpose is to slow the flow of blood, thus maintaining and/or creating a stronger erection.

How do you put on cock rings?
Cock rings can be worn around just the penis or both the penis and scrotum, or just the scrotum alone.  Stretchy cock rings can be put on at any time during an erection, but the process is easiest if you are semi-erect. Solid cock rings should be applied before you are completely erect.

How to use the 3 pcs. cock rings:
1. The largest ring goes around your penis + testicles
2. The medium ring goes around just your testicles.
3. The smallest ring goes around your penis, while it’s still flaccid. If you attempt to get it around your erect penis, it probably won’t work.

Some tips:
– It helps if you’re warm and hanging low
– lube is your friend when using a cock ring (especially with metal cock rings) – it makes everything go smoothly and doesn’t cause friction
– shave down there so you don’t yank any pubes

This one is great for someone’s first time 🙂 Rubber tends to be easier to use.